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Couple Shares Pacemaker Experiences

Most people in their forties feel too young to have a heart condition. They don't expect the need for a cardiac device, either for themselves or for their partners.

Meet Rick and Mary Rivard — a Minnesota couple — each with a pacemaker. Mary, 44, had a pacemaker implanted 7 years ago to correct a rare heart problem. Last year, Rick, 43, had his operation to treat bradycardia, a condition where the heart beats too slowly.

See how they each describe their experiences, as a patient and as a patient's partner:

Mary's Operation

How did you react when the doctor recommended a pacemaker for Mary?

Rick: I was pretty scared because we didn't have any experience with this. Plus, we had just found out Mary was pregnant. We tried to learn what we could and relied on the support of family and friends.

Mary: I was lucky to have a cardiologist I trusted. She led us through the process and made us feel informed. That helped a lot.

What did you do to help Mary during the process?

Rick: I was "the man!" I stayed positive and was there for her. I also put faith in our doctor's expertise.

How did you feel after Mary's operation?

Rick: Great. The results of my wife's operation were so positive. Her blood pressure bounced back. Overall, her recovery was far better than what the doctor had even expected.

Rick's Operation

How did you react when the doctor recommended a pacemaker for Rick?

Mary: I was in disbelief. We have led very healthy lives. When Rick was diagnosed with a heart problem, I thought, "What's the deal here?" First me. Then him.

Rick: Seeing my wife live a full, normal life with her pacemaker, I felt comfortable getting one myself. Like lots of women, she blazed the trail. I just followed.

What did you do to help Rick during the process?

Mary: I pointed out the silver linings. We understood that heart damage could lead to lifelong issues and saw a pacemaker as the solution.

How did you feel after Rick's operation?

Mary: Around the time of his heart problems, Rick was getting tired very easily. After the surgery, he had all the energy he once had. We were happy the operation went as well as it did.

Living With a Pacemaker

Have your lives changed since getting the pacemakers?

Mary: Since the operations, we've become more grounded. With my heart condition, I've had to slow down a bit — I no longer work full-time. More than ever we realize the importance of family. We are committed to that.

Rick: I was an avid runner before and am an avid runner now, thanks to the procedure. As for my wife, I believe the pacemaker truly extended her life.

Did you have any concerns about living with a pacemaker?

Mary: I was concerned because you hear all these warnings that just aren't true — like not being able to use cell phones and microwaves. We haven't had to alter our lifestyle one bit. I guess I would if I became a welder. But I don't see that happening anytime soon. [Learn more: Sources of Electromagnetic Interference]

Rick: Now that we both had pacemakers, one of my first concerns was about getting close. I thought to myself, "Oh, what's going to happen when we are real intimate?" It was a selfish concern. But our doctor said there wouldn't be an issue.

Have you had any problems with your pacemaker since the surgery?

Rick: The only problem I have is remembering that it's there. I get really into what I'm doing and have to remind myself about the periodic checkups.

Mary: None at all. I feel the tough times are behind us. I am very grateful for the technology that is available today.

Note: Individual symptoms, situations, and circumstances may vary. Please consult your physician or qualified health provider regarding your condition and appropriate medical treatment. The information provided is not intended to be used for medical diagnosis or treatment or as a substitute for professional medical advice.

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